{"id":1322,"date":"2022-02-24T05:02:56","date_gmt":"2022-02-24T05:02:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ianremember.me.uk\/index.php\/home\/"},"modified":"2025-09-17T17:07:33","modified_gmt":"2025-09-17T17:07:33","slug":"home","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.ianremember.me.uk\/","title":{"rendered":"Home"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-ac63a6f1 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-ast-global-color-5-color\"><center>Remembering Ian<\/center><\/mark><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><center><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-ast-global-color-5-color\">Ian A. Towle<\/mark><\/center><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><center><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-ast-global-color-5-color\">1968 &#8211; 2005<\/mark><\/center><\/h2>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-87d51ab6 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2005 is 20 years ago, which seems unbelievable. The changes in the seasons tell me it&#8217;s September, the way the sun is in the sky, the chilly mornings but still sunny days, the sunflowers in the shops and in peoples&#8217; gardens, they were his favourite flower, the swifts have migrated now, we used to watch them flying in the skies over our house in July and early August. Ian&#8217;s birthday is soon after, on 16th September. I still think about Ian every day, remembering the wonderful and happy times we shared, the things we did, the places we went, remembering something Ian would have said or done, remembering his opinions.<br>Always remember: &#8220;Every minute you spend unhappy is another sixty seconds of happiness you can never get back.&#8221; \u200bSome time ago I found a suggestion, to create a new memory to sit alongside this one. As the years go by we have a few new memories&#8230;.Ian has three great-nieces and three great-nephews.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ian lived all his life with a congenital heart condition called Ebstein&#8217;s Anomaly. Ian never let his condition get in the way of what he wanted to do &#8211; he was always going to do it anyway. He always said, &#8220;there are people in the world worse off than me&#8221;. Ian had such a love of life and a tremendous respect for life, nature and the world around him. I knew Ian for fourteen years, and of those, we were married for nine years, but I believe we experienced more love, laughter and happiness than many people are lucky enough to experience in an entire lifetime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-9c694b96\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-e1e5780d\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-image uagb-block-489e0a67 wp-block-uagb-image--layout-default wp-block-uagb-image--effect-static wp-block-uagb-image--align-none\"><figure class=\"wp-block-uagb-image__figure\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ianremember.me.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/DSCF4405-768x1024.jpg \" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 150px\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ianremember.me.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/DSCF4405-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Ian on teehaus steps\" class=\"uag-image-1864\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" title=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" role=\"img\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-4a460077\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-image uagb-block-569ef1a1 wp-block-uagb-image--layout-default wp-block-uagb-image--effect-static wp-block-uagb-image--align-none\"><figure class=\"wp-block-uagb-image__figure\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ianremember.me.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/08-1_112-682x1024.jpg \" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 150px\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ianremember.me.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/08-1_112-682x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"uag-image-1858\" width=\"309\" height=\"464\" title=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" role=\"img\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-6fee5af1\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-image uagb-block-08ac81e8 wp-block-uagb-image--layout-default wp-block-uagb-image--effect-static wp-block-uagb-image--align-none\"><figure class=\"wp-block-uagb-image__figure\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ianremember.me.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/DSCF0_18-768x1024.jpg \" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 150px\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ianremember.me.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/DSCF0_18-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"uag-image-1868\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" title=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" role=\"img\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-1336e769 alignfull uagb-is-root-container\"><div class=\"uagb-container-inner-blocks-wrap\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-8a3320b9\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-info-box uagb-block-d1facf7c uagb-infobox__content-wrap  uagb-infobox-icon-above-title uagb-infobox-image-valign-top\"><div class=\"uagb-ifb-content\"><div class=\"uagb-ifb-title-wrap\"><span class=\"uagb-ifb-title-prefix\">Ian&#8217;s resting place is the Tithe Burial Ground.<br>Early in 2007, a Linden \/ Lime tree was planted in Ian&#8217;s memory.<br>A memorial has been placed with the following inscription:<\/span><h3 class=\"uagb-ifb-title\"><strong><center>Ian A. Towle<br>16.9.1968 ~ 13.9.2005<br>Precious husband, brother, uncle, son<br>Best friend to all<br>Now among the stars<\/center><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"uagb-ifb-button-wrapper wp-block-button\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"uagb-infobox-cta-link wp-block-button__link\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" onclick=\"return false;\"><span class=\"uagb-inline-editing\">Read More<\/span><\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-container uagb-block-3638cb5e\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-image uagb-block-c2fa9514 wp-block-uagb-image--layout-default wp-block-uagb-image--effect-static wp-block-uagb-image--align-none\"><figure class=\"wp-block-uagb-image__figure\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ianremember.me.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/DSCF1503-760x1024.jpg \" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 150px\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ianremember.me.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/DSCF1503-760x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"uag-image-1862\" width=\"760\" height=\"1024\" title=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" role=\"img\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Remembering Ian Ian A. 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